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I have a long term relationship for 7 years

however on our fourth year I met another girl and we had a relationship but didn’t broke up woth the I juggled 2 girls we lasted 3 years,I kept it in the shadows. I did not introduce her to my parents,last month the second ask for some space and that time I broke up with the first, I admitted to my first that had cheated and I’m choosing the second. I chose the second with no guarantee.My ex contacted her and revealed all, she was very angry with me and even our sex life is also revealed to her.she said that she cannot forgive me for what I did and I don’t know what to do right now. I resorted to suicide 2 weeks ago.

I suggest you seek professional help, if your feelings are overwhelming and you find yourself wanting to do anything reckless. singel japansk damer fГ¶r Г¤ktenskap I’m assuming that you want to be with the second girl again? It’s going to be really hard to get her to forgive you, but it’s not impossible. It’ll take a long time and a lot of effort on your part to regain her trust. This isn’t done overnight and if you feel like you don’t have the patience to (make it up to her for an indefinite time), then my suggestion is that you seek help from friends or family in helping you cope with the emotions and focus on recovery first.

On the relationship aspect of things, I think you should give them both space right now and focus on handling your own emotions first

I hate myself already. I love my boyfriend so much but I cheated on him. I dated another guy for one month. He found out about it and became so hurt. When asked if he still loves me, he said “Yes. But things would never be the same again.” I just want my man back, the way he used to be. I regret my actions.

Then you’ll have to slowly work on regaining his trust back with your actions and hopefully he’ll come through on his end.

It’s been a month to our breakup, I’ve tried every possible way to get him back like writing long paragraphs expressing my love, being sorry, trying every possible way but he is not ready to come back

Hey team, I have a hope frm u only now. We had this relation for 5 years ( our friendship+relationship). We were happy together. Things went wrong twice, once I was caught sending some nudes to other guy but he forgave me that time but the other time when – I met this frnd of mine n I started to like him, like his thinking, I started going out with him and my ex didn’t like this he asked me to stay away frm both but I didn’t as they were my old frnds but after a I while when I saw him getting hurt, I reduced making slow so that it’s nt awkwrd. He thought I started liking him n after 2-3 months he left, he broke up with me.i love him so much, we were like yin and yang completing each other. He is damn hurt, I knw I’ve done a big mistake n feel guilty for it. I m ready to change myself. Please guys I really need Ur help to get him back. I love him so much

You need to give him time to recover and forgive you before talking to him again. After everything that has happened, he will need time to see if he’s willing to give you another shot. During this month that both of you have broken up, if you have been contacting him often and and coming across as needy or desperate, he will only feel like he wants to distance himself from you. I suggest taking another 30 days to apply the no contact rule in order to give both him and you space to clear your thoughts and after that, if you really want to be with him, then you could approach him again.